For the Not-So-Shy

You can send your partner a personalized erotic story through email. One site that offers this service is hoochymail.com. At this site you can choose whether the story you send is “sexy”, “x-rated”, or “off the wall” (goofy), but be warned the sexy is pretty damn x-rated! You may choose to email both copies of the story to your own address so that you can edit it and tweak it to something a little more personal.

What’s really sexy about these stories, and the personal romance novels made to-order by sites like Book by You or YourNovel is that it’s your names  and personal details that are being used. This can make the shy receiver feel a little uncomfortable so be careful. I find that with a shyer partner it’s a good idea to go through the story and ‘sugar coat’ some of the cruder words (i.e.: “cock” to “shaft”) before you email it to them.

If you are the owner of a cell phone most come with a camera nowadays. You can use this camera in intimate moments to send pictures for your significant other to later enjoy. Just make sure they’re not receiving on a business cell phone because this can get them into a lot of trouble.

A word of advice: Make sure you and your partner are clear about who can see these pictures. A lot of women don’t realize that their sexy shot may be passed around for others to see in a group setting. Make sure to let your significant other know if this is past your comfort level.

Also, sexy doesn’t always mean hardcore. A picture of you bending down to tie your shoe in that really hot skirt you know your partner loves can sometimes be just as arousing as a close up shot of your genitals. Remember, its YOU they’re missing. Make it personal.