(Due to a breaking of my finger on Friday night, I’m going to keep these posts short and sweet. Once it’s healed I intend to come back and modify them.)

Previously, I wrote to some of the toys that can be used to keep the flame in a long distance relationship. (The visual assistance to follow could also easily be used by a couple who’re just looking to rekindle the romance in their relationship)

For the Shy

If you’ve got a certain romance novel you really like, order a copy for your partner to arrive by mail. Amazon.com is great for finding that book that your standard bookstore doesn’t always have (like my personal favorite; “Lion’s Bride” by Iris Johansen.) This is both an intimacy increasing act (as you let your partner into your own personal fantasy world) and a great way to broach the idea of new activities. Another option is to scan in pictures or email links from websites that you find to be arousing. Your not putting anything out there that’s directly you, and therefore some people find this easier then some of the more risqué options.